Whether you live here or not, you’re certain to get a more local experience if you “blend,” as Marisa Tomei said to Joe Pesci in “My Cousin Vinny.” To blend is to fit in, so to speak. And, in New York, putting forth your best New York City sensibility counts for a lot.
Let’s start with some of the more obvious “not to do’s” that immediately destroy your New York coolness.
Don’t, under any circumstances, walk the streets of New York City wearing socks and sandals, no matter what the season. Sandals can be fine, but use your judgment as flip flops may be more appropriately left for your beach visits. And, please observe the socks-and-sandals corollary if you’re a male: never wear sandals into fine restaurants, theater, or any other upscale venue. Women have it a bit easier here, as sandals (not flip flops) are acceptable as long as a pedicure has been recently enjoyed.